Life In Brunei

Brunei is very famous as one of the petroleum exporters in the world.



Just recently,I've been updated that Brunei is famous for another thing......



What leads to my thought is that everyone has been asking the same question the time I was in Brunei.

Friend A: OMG,You're in Brunei now, Wu Chun's hometown, did you see him?
PM: ........

Friend B: Pui Mun Pui Mun, did you visit Wu Chun's fitness club in Brunei?
PM: I don't even know the location of it my friend.


Dear friends, I barely have the obsession over him so my trip is not exclusively for tracking his past and current possession. Moreover, I don't live for Wu Chun!

In fact, I think I see more of her...instead of a him!



I've been accompanying her all the time while I was in Brunei.Having her by my side definitely makes me feel more excited than seeing Wu Chun in real.

"I'm sorry lah, but she's really adorable mah! XD "



Brunei is a small place with citizens feeling contented with their country as well as lifestyles-simple but rich. Most of the products available on supermarkets are imported goods, with fairly affordable prices. The ruling authority makes it a must to prohibit any liquor being sold in the country, so the Bruneian people have to pass through the custom to have a sip on Heineken.By right, I could have imagined them having a wine garage at home due to their wealthiness but this just proves me wrong.

Other than that, I had most of my eatings outside during the entire trip.So it was basically just about eating, eating and eating.


L.A donut cafe in Bandar Seri Begawan.



Bruneian style French Toast ( It was wrapped with eggs instead of the usual thick toast)


Home baked cookies which can be made in 30 minutes, or was it instant cookies?=P



I enjoy cooking!

Some say life in Brunei is simply dull and boring. Of course, Brunei is not the place which satisfies night-clubber, fashion walker or even metropolis lover. It's a totally simple place to let you get out of your exhausting daily routine by sleeping,
have a half day trip at the bandar, and probably end your day in a Japanese restaurant for its tempting sushi.( Yes, the Japanese cuisine is slightly nicer than the ones in K.L). I would conclude this as Brunei has its own speciality and fits different people. Moreover,it depends on what do you look for in a vacation?

"walk more to visit more places? or totally a mind-free holiday?"

To me, I found my way to enjoy this trip as an interesting part of my vacation.




I would say we need to be reminded of how simple life we initially started,which it slowly expanded to more difficult hardships and challenging problems,to appreciate things that eventually grow bigger and bombastic in our life.

Once in a while I feel, doing nothing is that something.

I'm Missing You--------> My long hair!

I clearly remember my friends' shocking faces when they first seen my new short hairstyle last year.A lot of curiousity,excitement and comments received upon my new look.I didn't know I could make a big fuss by changing a new hairstyle until the day came.

Some questions asked by them were funny, until I started wondering the precise reason for my action.Am I hoping for a new change? Or just plainly bored with my already-kept-for-5-years-long hair? I think the answer is much more favourable for the first one. I had completed my secondary school,an interval between secondary and Pre-U studies.I was keeping long hair all these while and being very pampered by the feeling of having something silky and straight sweeping on my back all the time.
I believe part of my excitement on keeping long hair also comes from the restriction to keep it during primary school,and therefore I wanted to keep it immediately after primary school.The same feeling appeared after I left high school,but just this time,the feeling shifted to keep short hair.Being uncertain about the new studying environment, I decided to have some changes within myself before heading to bigger changes.Furthermore, it would be my first time having male classmates after the long long 5 years, which injected me this thought to keep my hair short- neater and easier for me since having the ostentaciousness on long hair has never really matter much to me. Without much procrastination, I stepped into the saloon and

"The moment I cut my hair has already indicated the new point of my life."

I felt relieved that the outcome wasn't as bad as I thought. Life as a short hair girl is pretty much easier, especially shown on the bathing time and usage of shampoo. Without long hair, I could finish bathing in just 8 minutes,including washing the short hair of mine. I use shorter time to comb my hair, which is a plus for me when I was in a rush for morning classes.




I received a lot of comments on my short hair, fortunately most of it were positive ones.Because of my short hair, I suddenly have celebrity's face, that's something amazing I suppose, because a person's look will change accordingly to his/her hairstyle. Some say I look like Hebe in taiwanese group,S.H.E, minority agreed that I look like "xiao yu" in Jay Chou hot-selling movie "The Secret", some also came up with Rainie Yang etcetera. I'm quite emotionless about it, but luckily those girls mentioned are prettier than me lah,XD I'm contented to be compared to them already, despite most of them might be flattering.

There were times when I regretted on my courage, that was usually the time when I started telling myself " How nice if I didn't cut my hair, then I could have tied it up or curl it already?" The feeling rushed up on my mind sometimes when I saw my long-haired female buddies changing their hairstyles, which made me feel indulged. That's why at the same time,I'll tell myself "Maybe one day you'll have them as well",which was more to self-comforting.

My short hair diary is coming to an end, as I'll be keeping long hair again.
This experience is very satisfying to me, and I really feel the need to have unnecessary things to pop up in life to lead life exuberantly. I wouldn't know the result without trying it,just like cutting my hair,right? If I were to dissolve all my thoughts, I think Pui Mun is seriously a bored-to-death person to be with,not to mention that she's already dull enough to stay with.

I hope that the same confidence can be applied into different aspects of my life, to create my small simple world,and slowly adapt myself to the bigger and much more complicated world.

I miss you,my long hair, =) hopefully to have you back one day!

* I love both types, short hair and long hair!*

Sarawak Trip 2008

Sarawak, here I come!

Let pictures speak it all, our craziness as a result of the reunion.
"It feels so good to go somewhere new, with someone familiar in it.

Once again, we had pillow talk till late night,
Once again, we had our mobile KTV,
Once again, we had our used-to-be-usual movie outing,
Once again, we had our lunch and dinner together,

But this time, we made ourselves new memories,
Walking in the beach together,
Having midnight KTV, midnight movie,
The 19 hours of starvation, and pizza meal for 4 right after that,
Cooking in the midnight?? Of course only with Susie Sia!

Those things that seem to be so common, but only I feel the fun of it, how appreciative and grateful am I, because life never repeats, and good things don't come often. How things changed gradually with our so-near-yet-so-far future,
how they used to be part of my daily lives, until seeing them once in a few months.

Then only did I realise, that I've done so much, gone so far in 2007, despite it only lasted for that 10 months,I've gained much more than I thought.

The only thing that makes me feel "guilty" is how massive the amount of rain I brought daily, because of the rain god effect? (because I'm 张珮"雯"!)Perhaps my luck can be real bad when God want them to be.

My Sarawak trip is yet to be ended, as my next destination will be Gua Niah in Miri,which I will leave my footprints on it next week.I'm now in Brunei, babysitting my niece, and it makes me feel like I'm obliged like a boyfriend, offering her the best that I could. She's my little girlfriend, the sea of emotions is so contradicting because as much as I'm anticipating on her growth, I know that I'll surely miss one of those days when I used to spend 3/4 of my time with her daily.
Hopefully she'll remember this "boyfriend" someday, ahem ahem!

Always love you guys!Thank you for making me feel this way.
I hope there's always a next trip for us.=)

My Choice, My Decision

I just read a travelogue lately, about this charming city-Vancouver. It's the third largest city in Canada with the population of 600,000.Generally not much of us know the city well, one of my impressions on Vancouver is that it's one of the cities with highest immigration rate in the world,especially HongKongnese immigrants. It's about 30 hours of flight(*sweat*) from here,Malaysia.In other words, it's about a journey of 6 meals+10 times of toilet+20 hours of sleeping+ 6 hours of movies and games to actually step into this beautiful land.




Why would I suddenly blog about Vancouver?



It might be one of the destinations I would be staying in future,since I've applied to the University of British Columbia(UBC), which is located in there.
People always like to question about my decision, and I'm most willingly to share with you my thoughts, every bit of it which leads to my judgement.

Both of my elder sisters were Australian Universities graduants , this reduces my wish to study abroad in the same country as I hope to have gone to a totally new environment to pursue my degree. I've never doubted on Aussie being a nice and ideal place to study, which attracts more than 300,000 local pupils to continue with their dreams in Australia. Come to think of it, I don't quite feel like going there when I see at least quarter the familiar faces I once met during primary or secondary school, to be reunited in university. It is not a matter of being an escaper, avoiding my former classmates, just that I feel entering a foreign university symbolizes a new start of my life, a completely strange place awaiting me to cope with it, but not a familiar place which allows me to pamper myself, still behaving as though I'm a princess at home.

After all, why must I follow the heat,and rush myself into some of the popular universities,knowing that they're not my first choice.

Then I widened my options and considered on UK and Canada. It's undeniably that UK seems to win lots of parents' hearts due to its prestigious institutions,also of the reason that UK has established a historical and contemporary educational systems, which immediately outstands among the rests.

Well, I like UK for its historical and cultural means, but the likeness isn't enough to convince me to put UK as my top priority for overseas study. Many people like UK, but somehow my instict is telling me that UK isn't the right place for me. WHY? I suppose I struggle too much on the people's friendliness as well as the living cost, despite my parents are leaving me the biggest freedom to choose on the place I wanted to go.Moreover, going to a more expensive place must result in getting a higher grade to me, or else everywhere would be the same to study, I'm very much motivated in that sense.

Then I've come to a consideration on Vancouver, Canada. It was completely out of the list initially, only started to come into my mind when my sister encouraged me to think about studying in Canada. It was tremendous how my mind slowly moved by her words, after researching on the place as well as the university, Vancouver is really an ideal choice I feel. Speaking about weather, it's warmer than Toronto, with average temperature 20+ and lowest temperature is about 0-2 celcius. This weather shouldn't be a problem to me after my Japan trip 2 years ago, as I'm always favourable to Winter season, the season of Snow and Christmas! In addition, Chinese population is the second largest in the city, which makes me feel warmer inside. I've always liked the feeling of being surrounded by Asians,as I'm rooted from there.Although I'll surely make western friends, I have a strong feeling that my future friends will mainly be Asians still. Those of them who share similar culture,tradition as I am. Moreover, more Asians==>more Asian cuisine based restaurants===> life can never be better than getting to enjoy the home food I never needed to spend time to find it in Malaysia.I'll be feeling home!! Of course, Canada's natural beauty has always been an affiniti to me, it will mean more weekends trip and nice shots in future.

*The only weak point of it is the distance from Malaysia though.=(

But I have to say, it's still way too early to dream on all these,as I haven't got to sniff a little of the good news from all the universities that I've applied to.
As a matter of fact, the thought of not getting even one admission letter is hauting me. I myself am not confident that the admission staffs will consider much about my application after a glance on my results,it's not persuasive enough.*shakes head*
I'm harbouring for a hope, a hope that will bring some difference in my life.


I've also noticed that friends are getting worried about my life when I'm off the country. I know, what you all are worrying about, is something I've been thinking for almost every night. I'm a shilly-shally person, always fail to become a shrewd and brave girl, this is what I discovered when I see my sisters are so capable of handling problems. I find myself uselss,and there's a lot for me to learn about life yet! Having an opportunity of kicking myself out of the comfort zone and learning things independently is a survival skill for me in capable of confronting more hardships from time to time.
No..no one but just myself for this time.

=) I'm grateful to have received all the encouraging sentences from each and everyone of you. I don't need much friends, I just need those who're with me now.
Always, and will always be. Thank you for being understandable and support me wholeheartedly.

* Pui Mun's recession session will soon be ended, I need to catch up,walk faster to a new life, I can't afford to stay on miscellaneous things already*


Have you ever loved somebody so much
It makes you cry?
Have you ever needed something so bad
You can't sleep at night?
Have you ever tried to find the words
But they don't come out right?
Have you ever?

("Have You Ever" by Westlife)

Yes I do, and what makes me fall makes me stronger after all, only after tearing and heart-smashing, that I'm able to smile to myself again.=)

Thank you to Mk, Cl and Atlee bro.

Petronas Television Advertisements

Petronas New Year advertisement is always one of the highlights during my Chinese New Year celebration.Each year they'll come out with a CNY advertisement with different storyline, but somewhat all of them are connected because family love is revolved in all of them.For those who haven't watched their advertisements ,you might doubt on my favour on them.

But let me tell you the reason why....

I salute the professional crew who always squeezes every bit of their creativity to produce an impulsive piece of work.I find it uneasy to have always come out with good ideas wandering on the same theme for so long, whereas they manage to keep their quality work all the time.

I used to be a TV-lover but as time goes by, I hardly keep the same amount on time spent on television with the "a-little-heavy" work load burden on me most of the time.(I bet my mother will scream at me if I daresay what I have done was extremely heavy work load lol). These meaningful advertisements are definitely attractive factors to keep me beside of television occasionally, especially during CNY and National Day, where television is closely associated to my daily life at that time.

Merdeka 2004-Return Home


Merdeka 1998-Local Hero


Advertisement is an important chain for entrepreneurs to win the publics' hearts,the only survival factor for this is to be "original and creative" for every publicity they make.Sadly to say, there are not much inspirational clips shown on TV,in fact, I find most of them being crappy and hardsell. You don't need someone to dance while mopping the floor to show that the cleaning products are effective right? Or smelling the detergent and smile to prove its great scent?
I mean, not many of us will do so when washing or mopping.

TV commercials by Petronas are meaningful.This is why I enjoy watching it a whole lot. Many of them are inspirational in which I feel these are the moral values that should be instilled in us. Such an advertisement makes us think back twice the significance of it and reminds us that it must not be something that loses touch in our lives.

The storyline is very down-to-earth and it's happening everywhere around us. Children neglecting their parents,close bond between grandparents and their grandchild etcetera. This might not be issues which pounder on us but surely we've witnessed it elsewhere,perhaps listening stories from the people around us would be sufficient for us to realise the truth that occurs.

CNY 2001-Chopsticks


CNY 2005-Letchumi & Rokiah


CNY 2006-Our Sons



To show their "Muhibah-ness", they often have TV commercials relating multi-racial friendship the love and care they share for each other. Well, it's always much more pure and beautiful to watch it on television,compared to the complicated and conflicting world outside. Seriously, I admire the multiracial friendship they bond on TV, because it's purely trust and love, no discriminating, just friendship.

CNY 1999-2000


Merdeka 2003-Three Friends


A big applause to Petronas for the effort on all these adverds.

Speaking about advertisement, there's also one piece of work which I can hardly forget, I bet most of you left deep impression on it as well.



Credits to:1nation1people

That's why I feel,originality and creativity matter a lot in the advertising field to spice up a piece of work.A good advertisement is enough for us to remember for the rest of the 10 years, surprising but somewhat true,isn't it?

English-Hindu Crossover

A friend of mine came up with this idea of singing a song in another language of its original one.This reminds me a lot of the videos I watched last year.It's about an Indian song lyrics being translated to English, despite it's just the sound that's similar,not the exact meaning of the lyrics.

What can I say about this?
People are getting freaky creative nowadays! I can't help but to burst in laughter everytime I watch this.I've yet to think that languages can intersect and become globally utilize up to this extent.




"who put the goat in there?"..."the yellow goat I ate.."




Funny videos are really effective laughing pills to me! I hope that you find this enjoyable as well!

Pui Mun's Self-Outing

I enjoy the feeling of self-outing once in a while, without having anyone to accompany but just to walk round and round in the mall. It is not that I'm a lonely ranger,but I believe that having self-outing regularly is a way to inject myself with fresh new ideas besides refreshing myself from the hectic and repeating schedule. Moreover, going to an inspirational place is what more an affinity to me when I'm deadly dragging myself with hell lots of tasks yet to be completed. I don't like to talk much when I'm exhausted though.

When I go out alone, I discover many little things that will usually be swept away. I can get myself seated and watching individuals responding to things differently. When I'm super duper energetic, I start to scan through items display in shops to look for interesting stuffs in which it is the source of my inspiration. Sometimes having window shopping is fine for me to update myself with the latest fashion sense. I personally like self-outing especially when I'm in search for something, like buying a gift for friends or purchasing goods for myself, with one condition-when I do not have a clue on what to buy.




I saw the Barbie Dolls Fair in one of my self-outings recently, and I urged to capture a few nice shots of these beautifully sewed gowns worn on the dolls besides spending some time appreciating the pretty handmade gowns by the tailors.I started to think how patient of them to have sewn such a nice and tiny clothe one by one, with minimum 30 pieces of them displaying there.However, I start to see the success of the advertising effect of this mini dolls fair,because most of the individuals will buy the dealer' s idea of merging jeweleries with wedding gowns since both are complementary during wedding occasion. Moreover, the public has been pampered to fancy cute and tiny things since the day dealers like to produce goods in mini sized.
Is it because that we give in to the market, choose from what's available from there, or just simply the market provides us with all of our demands, respond to all our needs? Profit is their ongoing objective, but most of the time I don't feel that my demands are answered by them, there are still a lot of things in my wishlist which I have yet to see them appear on the market. Perhaps I'm just hopping too much though,they are just humans who pocess one brain and all that I have,a human who is just like me, if I can't make it, I should expect less that people will make it for me,right?
However,it is still attractive to see Barbies dressed nicely as many of us(girls especially,hehehe) idolized them when we were young.Maybe Barbie symbolizes many young girls' dream of being pretty,being dressed nicely,forever stay happy that's why they like Barbie?

I continue with my window shopping after pausing for about 15 minutes, again I feel life is so exuberant with creative ideas and interesting things hanging around. Life can be interesting if I willingly open my heart and accept the changes to make myself a happier person.=)

p/s: CHONG PUI MUN, can't be so stubborn sometimes, to things which will never belong to us.

I have a dream!

We never realize the importance of those things that we concern the most until we approach them and learn to make every bit of our effort to achieve it.The passion slowly grows in our heart, that it eventually stands up in the center of our circle of life.We wish to become the perfectionist of ourself,perhaps not among the cream of the crops from outsiders' views, just the best for our own soul.We wish to dwell in the ideal life like how it is imagined,we need a commitment from ourself,that will bring us there someday.This is the ever-growing passion I mean, the passion that will never come to an end, it will only stretch our self-limit,enhance our true talents.Because deep down inside, we know we're not going to chase them out of our world.These things are always there,and forever will be.

Remember those days when we were babies, we expressed ourselves through babbling and crawling.Reaching to the unreachable places was what we always thought of at that time, as if it was the biggest aim in our everyday lives.Until the day we learned to talk, we always wished to learn at a faster pace, to outstand the rest, we wanted to be the best among our friends.As we had reached the adolescent stage, we tend to have big dreams and were ambitious on our future. Coming to the age of 19,another step into the door of 20, we are mentally developed until it comes to a stage, that makes us feel: I just want to do the best on what I'm holding now, not what I'm carrying on the future. I'm uncertain on how many of you will agree with this.However, we never forget the one big dream in our heart, that we desire so much but knowing how far are we going to be from it, from the day we surrender to the reality. We switch off the power mode of our dreams because we do not want to remind ourselves on how much do we want it to come true in our life. Most people might think it this way, but I don't feel it that way to some extend.

Our current possession and effort might not match with the true dreams in our heart, but this one big dream is the only passion that will never disappear, it only grows immensely in our heart, together with our effort as well. We might success in some other fields one day, but this dream will remain as the same at the same time. It brings back reminiscence, it leaves us no regrets,not solely because of the thought of " a dream is just a dream, a dream will never come true".It is because that we transform the wants into a motivation , we put in as much effort that we will work on our dreams into the current things that we uphold. We want them to be as successful as our dreams. Say your dreams out loud, to foresee the courage you will gain to overcome the fear on things which you are working on,to believe that dreams and reality are both mutual to each other.

" leave no regrets on your dream, because you know it always stays"

Your future always stays as well.

=)Pui Mun says: My one big dream is to become a musician, to live in a world of orchestra and piano.
I hope the passion for piano works equally well on inventing new food flavors.

Internet Bullies

I came across with a horrified news today while I was flipping through the newspaper, I do feel sad for the victim,Megan,but at the same time I am confused by the act of the people nowadays.The news came like this:

"LAST October, Internet users worldwide were shocked by the story of Megan Meier, a 13-year-old American girl who hung herself after being hoaxed by a couple who posed online as a “cute boy” named Josh.

The cute boy turned out to be Megan’s friend from school (with whom she had a falling out) and the girl’s mother, who made friends with Megan over social networking site MySpace.

Shortly into the “friendship”, Josh began sending hateful messages to Megan, telling her “the world would be a better place without you”.

Megan was seemingly in the safety of her home under the care of her parents, but being on the Internet exposed her to dangers. Her story ended in tragedy, and is an extreme example of Internet bullying. "



Megan was a teenager who had weight problems and was often teased by friends because of her plummy body.People made fun out of her by giving her different nicknames such as "fat girl" etcetera.This had caused her to desperately lurking for love and a good relationship to rely on,but always faces failures.

I can understand the fact that teenagers' way of communicating has changed over the decade.They start being a little harsh to each other and criticism once in a while is no a big deal in their circle of social networking.However, my mind is very much bothered by the fact that even parents involved in the hoax to humiliate a young girl who is their children's friend.Is that so funny to make a young girl have no way back to the reality,which has its beautiful side as well? Is that a satisfaction to see the girl collapses and traumatized without having appropriate counseling on time? Just that 30 minutes before her death that could make a difference out of her entire life,but no one was there to lend her a shoulder,maybe just let her cry for once,no?

NO

After all,I feel annoyed by the act of the "Josh" as well.Why wasting so much time in doing this while you should be educating your children NOT TO DO THIS KIND OF THINGS.
This has been the biggest doubt of mine for this tragedy.

I really hope people sometimes show their sympathy and think twice before they say anything or any action is carried out.You don't gain anything to cause a person's death, but only guiltiness throughout your life,isn't it? At least I feel very so,that we don't badmouth on anyone, even if they are our allies, anemies or frenemies.I bet the world will be much more peaceful if everyone speaks less on rumors and gossips. Badmouthing definitely is one of the worst habits to be practiced.But why are so many people still repeating the same mistake?...I have no answer for this, just 2 sentences as a reminder:

*Speak no evil*
*Learn to apologize*

Megan,R.I.P!!

Tagged

It's time for me to answer questions as I'm tagged by Chui Man and Winney X the pooh!=)
I'll do my best to make it an interesting post to be read, my friends,but most importantly is that both of them could see it, as I feel these quizzes are for people to have a better understanding on you,but not for the sake of answering it only.

1.小时候的理想是什么？
小学的时候曾想过当警察，也许是正义感所致吧，也或许是作文做太多了，对警察这份工作产生了崇拜。
中学的时候很向往人生的宽阔与自由，所以选择了飞机师，一份可以带人类飞翔的工作。

2.这辈子最快乐的是什么事？
拥有我一辈子都会努力珍惜的人，每一位朋友与家人的存在都令我明白了我自己存在的价值。
因为，快乐是可以很简单的。

3.最喜欢的颜色？
蓝色，代表平静与舒服的蓝色。

4.如果有机会的话，你最想对你的他说些什么？
最想跟你说的是：祝你幸福，永远地幸福！

5.你最想去哪个地方？为什么？
最想去拥有SEVEN WONDERS的国家，多了解这些古迹与多年仍屹立不倒的建筑。

6.最受不了自己哪个缺点？
缺乏自信心，总觉得自己很失败，很多事情都做不好。我想，这是以后我必须要克服的一个障碍吧!
因为人总要活的自信，才能尝试更多不同的挑战，样样事情都尽最大的努力去完成。
"not to try my best, but to do my best"

7.如果有不开心的事情，你会怎么办？
不太想讲话，会先沉淀自己的情绪，让自己冷静下来之后才会再与别人接触。
如果是可以努力改进的事情，我一定会尽力去改进，寻求更大的进步，下次才会做的更好。
如果是没办法改变的事情，我会学会看开，再学会放手与原谅，因为宽恕才是解决问题的最佳方案。

8.最害怕失去的东西？
最害怕失去自己的方向，少了一个可以令自己往前走的动力与干劲。
家人与朋友并不是我会害怕失去的人，因为我不会失去他们，不会因为距离而改变他们在我心中的位置吧！因为，我知道你们一直都会在！

9.五年内比较现实的目标是什么？
完成大学与找到自己理想的工作，继续往自己的兴趣努力-钢琴与日语。
看见大姐，二姐，三姐的家庭生活幸福，快乐。
赚钱养父母。

10.你最喜欢的一句话？
"The most precious gift we can offer others is our presence. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers."

11.最喜欢的歌手是谁？
心里拥有几位很欣赏的歌手，所以无法列出最喜欢的。

12.你希望你的另一半具备的条件是？
未来的事情我不想像太多吧！如果我真的喜欢他，我会努力接受他的个性。

13.至今最令你后悔的事是什么？
没考好SPM，我知道是我自己努力不够。也许，这会是一直的遗憾吧，令我第一次对自己这么的不满意与感觉到自己的差劲。

14.你最讨厌怎样的人？
没有一定的类型，只要是不太过火的我都会接受，一旦过了接线就代表我是真的厌恶了。

15.觉得自己会几岁结婚、生孩子？
还不想想这个问题，毕竟这不在我规划的人生计划中。
婚姻与爱情是顺其自然的事，是不能被规划而按计划进行的吧！

16.对自己的要求？
不要做会令自己后悔的事情，一旦决定了，无论结果是好是坏，也必须要往前走，而不是往后退。

17.你认为遇到什么样的事情才会让你觉得人性很黑暗？
从来都不认为人生是完全的光明，也许是意识到了光明的背后总会带点黑暗，是需要累积经验才会在处理人际关系中取得平衡点。“经一事，长一智”吧，遇到每一件不开心的事情都会看见一点人性的黑暗，但也会因此而令自己对各式各样的人性有所了解。当别人无法对你的生活方式做出妥协而在利用你的时候，自己就必须要学会一套的生活方式来对别人的变化做出妥协。

18.你此刻的心情？
很清晰，终于看清了自己的方向与决定。
很平静，因为不想再墮入漩涡里，我会慢慢地走出来。

19.圣诞节要到了，想跟谁庆祝？
=）圣诞节已经过了喔，不过2007年的圣诞过的很平静，是跟家人一起度过地。
没有倒数，没有大肆地庆祝，不过倒是感受到了平凡中的快乐与舒适的感觉。

20.2008年快来了，想跟过去的自己说什么？
Walk away and start a new life.
每一天经历的事情都是命中注定，必须亲身体验过才会学会它背后所隐藏的讯息。
很多事情没有一定的答案，没有一定的对错，所以希望自己能够看开一点，选择了就不要再怀疑自己的能力，
因为只有自己才能替自己决定，学业也是，感情也是，离开也是。
谢谢每一年的张珮雯，因为那都是构成现在与以后的张珮雯最珍贵的精华。

I decided to take this as a survey,so not going to pass it around to anyone else because most of my blogger-friends have already been tagged I suppose.Hopefully you'll understand a little about me through this piece of survey.
Tata!!=)