Out of so many people in the world, there’s one type I’ve seen who likes to make up things and rumors which come from nowhereland. The more fuss they bring up and the more they ruin your life, the happier they are. However,you find no guilt on this issue because you know that you’ve treated them as genuine as possible.
You feel absolutely ridiculous about what they say.However,you decided to remain silent despite of all the attacks and criticisms, because deep down inside, you know rumors do not do you justice in any way.
You remain silent although these criticisms sound very harsh, as the thing you feel sad about is not those criticisms, but it’s the change of a person’s behavior.
You remain silent, because you understand the consequence of involving in a never ending battle. Once the fight begins, it's going to harbor more and more hatred with the layers and layers of lies that are piling up the ceiling.
All these years, we remain silent and endure every single criticism, it doesn’t mean that we’re guilty and we’re to be blamed of our deeds.To me, we've been patient and good enough to go through all these things silently, because my parents instilled an important thought into my mind since young.
‘Treat everyone as genuine as possible and do everything based on your conscience. If you’ve done your best, then it’s up to the others to judge on your personality and behavior. It’s not just up to one mouth to say anything about your deeds, it’s about majority impression of you as a person.’
Of all the things they have said and done, I chose to forgive and remain silent, because there’s still some appreciation in me for them.
Out of all the attacks, I will only say
欲加之罪，其无辞乎