Someone asked me to share the secret of my emotional management skills since they think I’m optimistic. I can tell you frankly that I am not that optimistic, I’m a human who has emotions just like everyone of you, but I chose to bring out the positive energy within me and pass it to everyone else.
I seriously think this quote from the book ‘secret’ will sum up my thought on EQ management:
‘Write your script. When you see things you don't want, don't think about them, write about them, talk about them, push against them, or join groups that focus on the don't wants... remove your attention from don't wants.. and place them on do wants’
I do have unhappy memories in the past, I lost important things and people in my life. When I come to think of it, I regret it so much because I did not follow my heart and come up with the true answer at that time. I denied it so much because I wanted a better solution for everyone else, instead of myself. I thought pleasing the ones I love would make me feel happy as well, but in the end, I was even more miserable because I focused too much on how these things screwed up my life, I lost my sight on the majority things which I should treasure more.
Perhaps I did not lose a chance, a friendship, potential relationship or anything else but myself.I did not believe in myself that things could work out just the way I wished.That’s when I realize I need a change, I need to change my thoughts to be a better person. I need to trust myself more so that I can have a life that reflects my thoughts.
To be happy and satisfied with our life, we first have to understand the fact that we are the creators of our universe, and so we are the masterpiece of our life. We can be happy if we want to, as the inner thoughts will reflect the outer body, the choice falls in your hands. Resources are not finite because there are always alternatives, what you need is a brilliant idea to discover all these potential things. And the key factor which brings about the success of an idea is faith. You need to have faith in yourself under any circumstances.
When you are not happy with your life, you think life sucks and you’re such a loser.But life is abundant in all areas, and so do happiness and successes. When you have an inspired thought, you must trust it and act on it, and it will all come back to you, even if it is a mistake.We should be thankful for all the little mistakes we've made because these things clear up all the doubts for you and path the life you desire.
When you meet idiots, you’re so annoyed and you think they are eyesores.But there is always another choice, don’t take them into your heart and let the negative power intrudes your body. You’re lucky in a way that you’re not like them. You may be angry for a while but remember to let the anger dissolves after that.
When you have an arrogant boyfriend and you can’t bear up with his thoughts and behavior sometimes.There is actually another choice, give him a chance to prove himself for small issues. Let them go the way they wish and confront with their dignity instead of you poking out the silly mistake for them. You don’t need a robot who obeys everything you say.
Everything is up to your choice. The question is, what kind of life do you want?
Before you make any decision,do remember one thing:we can change the results of our lives.