每一天必经的路，也会因为季节的改变，心情的转换和不同的拍摄手法而显得不
‘ How can you be so adapted to your life and stay happy when
it’s so routine and dull sometimes?’ Black angel asked me at one of our dinner
dates after work.
I dare not say I am a person who knows exactly how to live a
great life, but I do know the way to see life in a positive way and the
importance of staying optimistic with my life at all times. I do feel bored
about my job sometimes and frustration creeps in when thinking about the commitment
I have to make due to my job. But there is always one thing I keep in mind
despite the frustration, I want to make sure that I have the resources
available, prepare myself for my dream and kick start it when the time is right.
To be an achiever in life, I have to first load my bullets before going all out
for the achievements I wish to accomplish at the later stage of my life. I need
some time to settle my thoughts, some experiences to learn about the
appropriate ways of being a good entrepreneur, as well as financial support for
my living expenses and future business modal. With that in mind, it is easier
for me to accept my current routine and be content with the way I lead my life
now because I’m gaining something out of it, this means that I’m carrying my
life in a manner that is much more than just doing-the-same-thing-every-day
kind of life.
Of course, that doesn’t mean that I do not like freedom and
leisure. I love travelling to explore different places leisurely and I never
restrict myself from splurging in this area. I’m just spreading my hobby over a
long span of time to keep a balance among work, loved ones, and hobby instead
of pursuing my hobby all at once and taking a long time off for travelling. By doing
this, my work allows me to support my hobby, and my hobby allows me to keep
motivated and energetic for my job, so they must co-exist and this relationship
will balance out itself wonderfully. By doing this, I know I will not regret because
I still follow my heart and never restrict myself to only 1 thing at a time. Maintaining
the balance is very characteristic of my personality and it matters to me,
especially when I have people that I really love and care of, so much that I am
willing to find a way to work things out for our happiness, both me and them.
It doesn’t mean that I can’t be happy even though I only travel few times in a
year because of work, I am still grateful because I can travel with people that
I love and escape from the busy world together. I don’t think it’s a sacrifice
of my personal will because I gain things from the other end.
To me, it’s always about the thought which will change into
thing. Our perception about life affects our happiness and attitude to make
things happen. It is okay if you feel that life is dull because it’s not at the
best stage yet, but you can’t deny the little bits of awesomeness in it right?
不是甘于平凡不懂得制造生命的花火，而是刺激也是需要平凡的造就才能衬托出它的不同。
That’s a choice, a thought, an attitude. There is always a
choice, and there is always a way to work things out. My 5 years of independent life makes me a
buyer for the saying ‘When there is a way, there is a will’.