记得要忘 记

活在这个世界上 ， 需要记得所有的 经历恐怕是很困 难的事情， 但对我来说每一件事 情都记得也不见得 是一件 好事， 因为生活经历 累积得越多 ，想更快跨越伤心 事的想法就会油 然而生， 毕竟人生下来也 不只是为 了享受人 生中美好的部分 ，而是需要亲身体 验更多难熬的关 子 ， 才懂得珍惜 ， 学会忘记悲 伤 ， 学会用自己 的方法来 安慰自己 ， 更晓得自己潜在的力量 ， 在紧要关头要懂 得爬起来， 看看自己需 要走的路， 唉 ， 还是有需要 完 成的事情啊 ！ ！ 这就是人生吧 ， 就像世界可不会因 为一个人的难 过而停止了 原本的运转 一样 ， 要流逝的 时间也终究会过 去。

当你难过的时候 ， 请记得回头看看 曾经陪伴过你的 快乐，我相信快乐 的感觉会驱走忧 郁 。
当你无助的时候 ， 请记得提醒你自己 你并不可怜 ， 因为如果可怜的话 ， 你不会拥有足 够的勇气活到今天 .
当你想哭的时候 ， 请记得安静地关 上门哭泣 ，毕竟这是 自己能够坦然的 对自己的感觉诚 实的时候， 哭完天不会放晴， 只是心不再那么地 郁闷。


如果想要自己活 得好一点， 快乐一 些， 请记得要忘记 该忘掉的事情 ，这也包括 了该放下的人 。 也许悲伤的事情如果来 的 合 时 将 会 变 成 快 乐 的 事 情 ， 该 放 下 的 人 如 果 遇 对 了 时 间 会 变成不该错过的人 ，只是 一旦变成 了悲伤 ，请学会看清 这残忍的决定 ，学会放下只 是为了走更远 的路 ，让自己的 心好好地准备接下 来的惊喜与不一定 ，生命不止存 在于被计划的事情 ，因为会不 期而遇的事情 往往会来得更 多 。 生活会变得有 价值是因为 我们被别人记 得我们的存在 ，所以才会 显得我们的价值 。

所以 ，朋 友 ，放弃并不是 一 件坏事 ， 当已经没 办法再维持下去 的时候 ， 记得要忘记原来就 不该开始 的东西 ，不属于自己 的东西 ，总有一天会 有离开的一 天 。 =)谁知道离开过 后 ，以后会有 更好的命运降 临 在我们的身上呢？活 在 当 下 ， 要学会对自己好一些 ， 为自己 开通了心 门 ，才能懂得看透更 多，你开始 懂了吗 ？

Left Brain VS Right Brain

Have you ever wondered whether you're left brained or right brained person?
When I flipped through the newspaper today and an interesting article caught my eye, it is about the the brain functioning besides body coordination. Come to think of it,everyone of us thinks differently based on our preference for the style of thinking,whether we are left-brained or right-brained people.

Left-brained people are generally more rational and analytical which lead them to a task-orientated life while right-brained people have high creativity and flexibility.Many of us are more to one of these styles of thinking although there are some who are more whole brained and equally adept to both modes. That brings a lot of my doubt,
" Does this mean that left-brained people and right-brained people will never do things the same because they have different thinking style?"

Out of curiousity,I went online to have a mini research on this topic,more about the way to know my brain better since I've no hint on the type of thinking style which I practise.This is where I found something interesting, our daily practises somehow give some clue to the dominant hemisphere of our brain.

Try out this simple test:
When you turn around,do you turn clockwise or anti-clockwise?
If clockwise, then you use more of the right side of the brain and vice versa.

LEFT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses logic,detail oriented,facts rule,words and language
present and past,math and science,can comprehend,knowing
acknowledges,order/pattern perception,knows object name
reality based,forms strategies,practical,safe


RIGHT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses feeling,"big picture" oriented,imagination rules
symbols and images,present and future,philosophy & religion
can "get it" (i.e. meaning),believes,appreciates
spatial perception,knows object function,fantasy based
presents possibilities,impetuous,risk taking

After all, I feel that it is actually not ourselves that determine our thinking completely, the brain has set it for us to think it in certain ways ,just like right-brained people will day dream more but left-brained people are more practical.It is how our brain coordinates and bring us to different decision.See the logic? Hmm..brain is actually the determinant of my life!!!

OOO,so next time if I ever did something incredible, I can proudly say
" because I'm 36% of a right-brained person who takes risk" XD

What happens to the rest of 67%?

Future

Recently I've seen many of my friends wandering around in the middle of the crossroads,feeling miserable about their future without knowing what to do and which to decide for their later life. Some feel upset for their not resulting academic performance despite many efforts have been put in,some do not have the confidence to pick on the course which they are interested in the most ,or worst come to worst,some do not have a hint of what to do in future.

I do not know the best way to calm down the fear in them because I'm nothing better than them ,I've my own worries for my future as well.It is just that I chosed to go one step by one step to achieve my own dreams, those ambitions which I think are attainable and reachable for me to go through it. Reality has taught me a lot to stop dreaming about what I really wanted to do,because I understand that I do not solely live my myself,but there are too much external factors to intervene in my decision, sad but this is something I have already accepted it since long time ago. Perhaps this is the reason I always tell people that
" Pui Mun is a person who seldom dreams, do not have an exact dream but only will work on what she thinks she can do it,not something which she loves the most".

Many of us always have the obligation in us which makes us think that we are responsible to think of the others as well besides of our own desires.My advice to many of you is that to think of a life which you feel that it is not too difficult for you to carry on ,because not all big dreams turn out to be big achievements,but to think of what you can do and not too far from your interest, as there is always an intermediary between dream and reality.Just like what we always hear,we would need to sacrifice something to achieve something else. If our dreams can't be a reality, then you know it's the time to have some changes and go in between it, not the exact desire but atleast it is not something far from it, be it just slightly associated with it.
" Do what you can do,not what others can do!!"

=) Keeping a positive attitude will maintain your motivation to work till the end,maybe that's not the desired destination but it is not necessary to think that only by achieving dreams that only one can be successful and satisfied. Anything that can make you feel that you're an useful resource to it can be a satisfactory reason to make you feel successful as well,and keeping your life happy and simple,with stable income and job. I do not know how many of you will agree with this thought,but simple thing always turns out to be happy, although this is what I think.=) I see kindergarden teachers as well as a hair-stylists are dedicated and satisfied with their job,although they undergo repeating routine daily.
" Sometimes being simple is not a bad thing, =) just go one step by one step,not to skip the process which will make you grow up"

Of course my reason to blog about this is not to demotivate everyone here to not have high dreams on their own future,=)but just keep your pace at a considerable rate and have alternatives ,=) do not keep your door shut to one option!!
"Be brave enough to think and to try , be it a small little ambition"

Good luck my friends!!