Future

Recently I've seen many of my friends wandering around in the middle of the crossroads,feeling miserable about their future without knowing what to do and which to decide for their later life. Some feel upset for their not resulting academic performance despite many efforts have been put in,some do not have the confidence to pick on the course which they are interested in the most ,or worst come to worst,some do not have a hint of what to do in future.

I do not know the best way to calm down the fear in them because I'm nothing better than them ,I've my own worries for my future as well.It is just that I chosed to go one step by one step to achieve my own dreams, those ambitions which I think are attainable and reachable for me to go through it. Reality has taught me a lot to stop dreaming about what I really wanted to do,because I understand that I do not solely live my myself,but there are too much external factors to intervene in my decision, sad but this is something I have already accepted it since long time ago. Perhaps this is the reason I always tell people that
" Pui Mun is a person who seldom dreams, do not have an exact dream but only will work on what she thinks she can do it,not something which she loves the most".

Many of us always have the obligation in us which makes us think that we are responsible to think of the others as well besides of our own desires.My advice to many of you is that to think of a life which you feel that it is not too difficult for you to carry on ,because not all big dreams turn out to be big achievements,but to think of what you can do and not too far from your interest, as there is always an intermediary between dream and reality.Just like what we always hear,we would need to sacrifice something to achieve something else. If our dreams can't be a reality, then you know it's the time to have some changes and go in between it, not the exact desire but atleast it is not something far from it, be it just slightly associated with it.
" Do what you can do,not what others can do!!"

=) Keeping a positive attitude will maintain your motivation to work till the end,maybe that's not the desired destination but it is not necessary to think that only by achieving dreams that only one can be successful and satisfied. Anything that can make you feel that you're an useful resource to it can be a satisfactory reason to make you feel successful as well,and keeping your life happy and simple,with stable income and job. I do not know how many of you will agree with this thought,but simple thing always turns out to be happy, although this is what I think.=) I see kindergarden teachers as well as a hair-stylists are dedicated and satisfied with their job,although they undergo repeating routine daily.
" Sometimes being simple is not a bad thing, =) just go one step by one step,not to skip the process which will make you grow up"

Of course my reason to blog about this is not to demotivate everyone here to not have high dreams on their own future,=)but just keep your pace at a considerable rate and have alternatives ,=) do not keep your door shut to one option!!
"Be brave enough to think and to try , be it a small little ambition"

Good luck my friends!!