Recently stumbled upon this article I’m Letting My Wife Go and it was very thought provoking and worth to be shared to everyone out there, single, dating, or married. It's not something only people who are attached to another person should know, but it's a valuable lesson every one may benefit from.Having faith in each other and giving moderate amount of freedom and privacy always make relationships grow fonder and become more lasting.
I'm fond of the idea of supporting each other and encourage my partner to pursue his dreams. Most people have dreams, big or small, but many of them will be forgotten along the way for many reasons. Dreams are not easy to be achieved, we encounter obstacles before even getting to start the path towards our dreams. Many people are haunted by the possibility of failing and lack the courage to even try to make the first step, before monetery reason and lacking hands-on experience come into play.
But I think all these can be changed. Fear can be overcome by love, support, and encouragement. More dreams can be realized if we are willing to give a kind word to people around us to give them a little push. That undoubtedly applies in relationship as well. Don't be afraid to tell your partner about your dreams because if he/she is the right one, he/she will let you fly and live through your dreams as you wish. If he/she doesn't, then probably you may want to re-consider spending the rest of your live living under the same roof with a person who restricts your dreams and limits the voice within you.
And as one of the commenters says, if that person doesn't come back to you after all that you have done, it's not a relection of yourself but a reflection of your partner for not being able to keep up the promise and return the unconditional love. Don't allow people who don't love you to take away your confidence and ruin the rest of your lives. They don't deserve it, just like you don't deserve to live a bad life for all the pain you have been put into.
'Real love shouldn’t limit a person’s potential, it should expand it.'